Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from one place to some other in home, public place, hotel etc is very entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy if they see in serials husband lifts his spouse in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same from their husbands and imagine that may be one day their husbands would lift them in their arms and take them from the living area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and individuals are wondering and wondering and saying inside "Why? Is this magic? Oh, she is certainly very lucky." But in reality many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for just about any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions could be there in a few rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they should have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some way don't feel happy to do such things for the most obvious reasons. Women complain too to their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses in their arms. Please have a close look at the following conversation between a man and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy working on his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to make her happy. He's least enthusiastic about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It is 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to listen to her in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife moved totally into her favorite serial. A few minutes later, most of an immediate, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he discusses her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with only a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I could see that there isn't any cricket match going on only at that time. Can you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife discusses her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust in me if I tell you." She mutes the channel whilst the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Obviously, I'll believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch the way Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what Personally i think honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a question casually "Who's Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I am speaing frankly about this character. You know she is my favorite. You appear to almost forget all my favorite actors."
"Oh, just how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple exactly like that. She is so lucky to have that strong man. I am feeling so happy you know. Maybe you have taken me that way even once? See how much her husband loves her. That's the way to express love. You have never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I love one to her nearly every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so they can say 'I love you' to her on an everyday basis." He has a pause and then continues "That's only a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those ideas aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. How do I lift you when you are so heavy?"
"I am aware, you'd say that. There is a constant care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave with their wives and there is no need to remind me of my weight again and again. I am trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I am aware for six days you follow those activities and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and goes into the other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a smile on his face.
From the aforementioned conversation one can conclude how men and women from middle income families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, the way the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction can affect people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor might be quite a heavy one for family men but if tried hard, could be very theraputic for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to do something than to watch, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get attached to serial characters rapidly and become accustomed to see the characters in daily soaps that they see on TV for a lengthy time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced like a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that despite replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character in your mind and assume that she or he's still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for just about any change to accept in general when a preexisting character is replaced with a fresh one. They take care to accept the brand new one. Somehow all these things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they become accustomed to that one character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of them and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have some fun together. One day each day, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. When the husband returns back from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the very first one and convinces him that he won't have chance to meet the very first one. What'll happen in this case? Natural reaction such situation could be going into shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change can be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Although some men would like to have such surprises some time in their life but used to factor and emotions will be between. It's this that exactly happens with viewers when replacement of a common actors is performed most of an immediate by a group of TV serials that could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers due to whom they have the ability to show whatever content they want to to be able to entertain them.
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